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The Real Reason Donors Stop Giving (And What You Can Do About It)

Written by 

Jaclyn Jones

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December 3, 2025

Every nonprofit leader worries about donor retention. But what if the top reason donors lapse isn’t what you think?

According to our findings from the Faithful Giving Project, donors aren’t primarily walking away because of financial hardship or even waning interest. The number one reason they stop giving is far simpler and far more fixable: they believed another organization had a greater need.

Let that sink in.

Donors stop giving because someone else is doing a better job of communicating urgency.

In today’s crowded nonprofit landscape, where countless causes compete for attention, it’s not enough to be doing good work—you have to show the need, tell the story, and earn the gift every time.

Relevance Beats Repetition

While the number two reason donors stop giving was a change in their financial situation, the number three reason given was that they grew tired of too many solicitations. Donor retention isn’t about sending more messages. It’s about sending the right message.

Donors are highly perceptive. If they receive a generic appeal, they can tell. And when that happens, your message becomes noise. But when you clearly communicate ongoing need and tangible impact, donors tune in—and respond.

To keep your donors engaged, you need to:

  • Tell stories, not just facts. Human connection drives generosity.
  • Be transparent about challenges. Donors want to know where help is still needed.
  • Show what’s at stake. Make the cost of inaction feel real.
  • Connect the dots. Help donors see how their giving fits into the bigger picture.

And make sure every email, letter, or ad you send answers one core question: Why now? If the urgency isn’t obvious, you risk losing the donor’s attention—and ultimately, their support.

Lastly, make your communication personal.  When donors feel essential and appreciated, they stay. When they understand the difference their gift makes, they’re more likely to give again. 

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